Friday
After two and a half frantic days of bouncing around Tokyo, today is slow, and it’s not necessary a bad thing. My legs ached from walking and standing everywhere. I hadn’t talked to anyone (in any intelligible sense) since I arrived, and apart of my vacation was to come and visit my friends — that’s how this whole trip began in the first place. Although, admittedly, I was finding myself wishing I was in Tokyo, but it’s easy enough to navigate my way back there.
This whole trip began with an IM to my friend Bernadette. “How’s Japan?” I asked her.
“It’s great you should come out and visit,” she replied to me.
I figured that wasn’t a bad idea. I hadn’t gone anywhere in a long while. I spent the winter break at home. I had always wanted to go to Japan but the last time I tried to put together a trip with friends it made Japan feel like a daunting task. There was too much effort that went into planning the trip and this time I feel that it was the right amount — no planning at all. I would just wing it. I told Kenny to get ready because I was coming to Japan to sleep on his floor.
Bernadette’s children, Kenny and Alexis, are out here in Japan apart of the Japanese Exchange and Teaching (JET) program. Alexis teaches in Toyama, but she’s visiting Mito because she’s sick and looking for a little comfort of home. Kenny lives in Mito and that’s where the four of us are staying. The apartment’s small, but I suppose for Japanese standards, for one person, it’s practically a mansion. The family would be sleeping together in the bedroom and I would be sleeping out in the living room on a mattress on the floor, which is pretty much what I expected and sure beat paying more for a hotel.
Friday started out quiet. I was quite content having seen Akiba at least once and having gone to the Ghibli museum. If there were two big things I wanted to do on this trip, I had done them. I had no other major plans really. I knew that there were things I wanted to see and wanted to eat, but I’d play all of that by ear in the coming days. I didn’t realize I’d also catch some of Alexis’ cold, but in the end, it didn’t slow me down — though as I write this I’ve still got a slight cough.
I did my laundry Friday morning. Since Kenny didn’t have a dryer we made a trek into Mito and I got to see the town for the first time. Instead of walking through a back alley we walked along the road leading to a bridge overlooking a huge swan lake. Bernadette and Alexis brought bread to feed the birds. We dropped off my things at the Soft Cream — you’d never think that it was a 24 laundry place — but it is. While my clothing spun dry we ventured over to the lake and fed the birds. A nursery of kids was also trying to chase the birds around so it was fun had by all.
I had never been that close to birds. As we dropped bread and rice cracker type treats they swarmed us — pigeons, swans, and ducks. The pigeons would eat anything even if it was too big for their beaks. The ducks tended to steal entire slices of bread and make off with them. The swans snipped at the other birds that got too close. It was fun to watch the entire eco-system of birds in play. As the birds swarmed the bread the kids swarmed the birds and we were eventually close enough to hold the animals in our hands. I had a pigeon eating out of my hands, something I had never done before. I’m sure Japanese pigeons are just as diseased as American ones and afterwards, I washed my hands a few times just for good measure. Still it was a nice slow start to the day.
This picture is just cool:
This swan either hurt it’s leg or she just enjoys standing on one leg:
I continued my day in Mito with Alexis and Bernadette — Kenny was off teaching class. We went to walk along the main street. If you’re curious there’s an Animate! on the main road even here, although it’s only the size of a regular store and not an eight story behemoth. There’s a stationary store that we visited — and their stationary stores are not our stationary stories. Our stationary stores sell birthday cards, pens, and maybe, well, stationary. Japanese stationary stores sell all of that but then go on and encompass things that an art store would sell including water colors, copic pens, brushes, comic book paper, screen tones, different forms of paper hand made and prebound into a sketchbook, and the list goes on. I think I could have even made a personal seal there if I wanted too. I ended up getting a bunch of brush pens but there were plenty of temptations for the artist in me.
We went to the big department store in town, Keisei. It’s again, about eight stories high, and filled to the brim with stuff and we had lunch at a, get this, American-style Japanese restaurant. It was dressed up to look like a saloon from the wild west. The waitresses were dresses as cowgirls — nothing lewd mind you. As apart of the kitschy American decor there was a sign that said something akin to “keep your shit outside.” I can only remember that it used the word “shit” somewhere.
We ordered and while our waitress struggled through trying to understand Bernadette she kept glancing over to me, at which point I would shrug, because I may look Asian, but that doesn’t mean I can speak Japanese. I ended up getting steak with fried shrimp (as portrayed below). As par with everything I’ve had in Japan, it was really tasty.
I might have mentioned this before, but when you go to a Japanese restaurant you don’t tip. So the price at the end of the meal was the price of our three meals combined. I don’t mind tipping — I tend to overtip if anything, but I do like knowing how much I’m going to pay, it makes things a lot easier.
One of the highlights of this day was the Mito Art Tower.
It’s a tall geometric tower overlooking the city. Once you go to the top you can see for miles around you and supposedly, on a clear day you can see straight out to Fuji. Why, it looks something like this:
Unfortunately, it was too hazy to really see the actual Mt. Fuji. I was able to make out the silhouettes of some other mountain ranges off in the distance.
Plans in the evening were in flux, but eventually we settled on going to an Aeon Department store about two train stations away in Uchihara. I know this may not be that thrilling for you, dear reader. You may think that these things are mundane, but I was curious to see how everyone outside of Tokyo lives. Mito’s not a bad place to explore that. It’s nice to know that not everything is too foreign here — people still go to the mall. Their fast food still has a KFC and McDonalds but they’re next to a Takoyaki stand and ramen shop in the food court and the Udon noodles I had were delicious — but I could say that about any and all noodles I had in Japan compared to the States. Amazingly, there’s a Sports Authority here right next to the Jusco — I went to both to look for a new hoodie but instead found gems like this:
Japanese fashion has a little too much e e cummings poetry on their shirts for me. Although I did get one:
Maybe I can start something new in the States.
There’s also a pretty sizable arcade where we spent part of the evening. Kenny and Alexis played Taiko Drum Master. I went off to explore the other cabinets. No Street Fighter but there definitely was a huge share of UFO catcher machines, a small Pachinko parlor, a horse betting game, and some arcade games including an arcade version of Tetris with comically large joysticks.
Sunday: White Day
Saturday I spent going back to Tokyo since we scrapped our plans for going to Sea Disney. Sunday I spent again in Mito. I was starting to get ill at this point, but not bad enough to keep me down. We saw Alexis off to the train station this morning — she was going back to Toyama. We were also going to look for a shipping company to send Bernadette’s luggage to the airport — so this is something you can do in Japan since shipping is pretty cheap within the country. The shipping companies were closed or couldn’t send the luggage to the airport in time for Bernadette to catch her plane which was unfortunate but I’d help her carry them to the train station.
As an aside, today, the 14th of March, also happened to be White Day. Valentine’s Day is a big deal. The girls give the guys gifts. On White Day, if the guy isn’t a total cad, he’d reciprocate and things end happily ever after. For the days leading up to White Day there have been a lot of stands selling candies and whatnot. Since I didn’t exchange gifts (obviously), that’s pretty much all I have to say about White Day.
“If your sick like Alexis, then you should head out to Kairakuen because tomorrow it might be worse,” was the omen Kenny gave me when we got back home. Good idea, I thought. If for whatever reason I couldn’t walk about tomorrow, at least I should enjoy today to its fullest even though I was feeling a bit under the weather. Kairakuen boasts 3000 plum blossom trees and is one of the largest gardens in Japan. Around this time of the year there’s also a Plum Blossom Festival held here.
I made the trek from Kenny’s coughing and at times shaking from the cold, but dammit, I was going to see Kairakuen. My body can heal en route. To get there, I had to cross a bridge and then work my way down to the duck pond. From there it’s about a two kilometer hike around the track in the blustery wind until I reached an area full of paddle boats. I went across a bridge over the highway traffic and found myself standing at the gates of a festival and a massive forest of plum blossoms. I walked through gazing at the trees and the different food stands wishing my stomach were more up to the task.
I wasn’t feeling too good and so I walked through the trees as quickly as I could. I then went to the stalls and found a Takoyaki stand and ordered myself one. I’ve had takoyaki before, but now I could gorge myself silly on it. Sure I wasn’t entirely there, and fried foods wouldn’t really hit the spot, but takoyaki had been something I wanted to try since I got to Japan — since before I got to Japan. I got my fill and it was delicious. Damn the consequences.
I explored the plum blossoms as best I could and then went on my way. Around 5 pm or so I crossed back over the highway and took a different but similar route back to Kenny’s and ended up getting lost on the different bike/walk trails that go back to the bridge — I didn’t think that was possible, but it was. I had to walk a little extra but I made it home.
Mito’s no Tokyo, but being able to see my friends again, attend a festival, and enjoy some of the more suburban life of Japan was a great change of pace.











































